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It used to be a social understanding that if you want a person to be there in your life for companionship, you made a
reciprocal contract of a relationship. Otherwise, you can not keep a single brazilian girl around beyond a couple of
dates in the face of not knowing or trusting each other, no exclusivity, no relationship of any real meaning. Now, men doing
online dating find out that they can get dates that are really just latin beauty. In spite of putting up a profile that describes
all the ways that they would make a great mate, or advertise that they are looking for the brazil model, they found that they
can get free love because a brazilian supermodel want them to like them. A woman knows that if she does not put
out, she is out of the running. Some guys even have come to believe or want to feel less guilty about it that if they are
honest about not wanting to settle down with a latina girl they score points. What they are really doing is arranging to have
a back door open in case it gets too serious or expectations pop up. In the meantime, looking for a Latina model means
just for tonight or as long as I can keep getting it. It is probably true that men older than 45 usually have a comfortable
existence and do not want anything to change. I have known men who started out thinking that they are looking for latina
women, but changed their minds about commitment because it would keep them dating. So how long do they want to have nothing
but encounters with brazilian women. Until they are doddering and need a nurse and then they will be willing
to be a brazilian beauty husband. I think that they will just be sad, alone old men nobody wants or cares about.
Online dating needs to evolve into more honesty and clarity. Maybe we will see a site only for people who want to choose
when they find the right one, and where there is some sort of consequences for lying to people, harming them, or just wasting
their time. In the meantime, online dating is just dating an end in itself because a latin supermodel will tend
to settle for the easiest and fastest gratification.
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